
Re: Do you look your age?
theda289 wrote:
I'm 21 but stopped aging around 14-15. I expect to be carded until I'm 50, my bf always gets carded too and he's 35 >.< Call us lucky if you like! I'm just tired of being asked what high school I go to.
To be fair, a lot of places have a policy to card every-one who looks "under forty", and this is usually posted so that people have no excuse not to have their ID ready. Granted, this is
usually at the discretion of the employees, who may or may not have a well-rounded enough experience to gauge a person's age by appearance with any degree of accuracy.
For a while, I was working as a cashier at a grocery store that sold beer and wine, and I just carded
everybody with the exception of the clearly elderly. My mother and a woman at my step-mother's
Quaker Meeting House started going grey at 15-16-ish, and Doris, the Quaker woman, said her hair was well salt-and-peppered by the age of twenty. I also have two other (male) friends who started balding in their teens, and the one I went to high-school with had the George Copstanza horseshoe by the age of nineteen --I was also nineteen at the time I worked at the store.
One time, somebody who was apparently forty-two/forty-three (forget which) didn't have his ID and got offended that I wouldn't sell him beer. He then
immediately sent his wife through my lane, and she had just turned twenty-one that week, and I told them, it's store policy not to sell to her, either, cos they're in the same party. They came back later with his ID and just paid for it at the service counter, cos he
really wanted the manager to write me up, but since the policy was clear that it was at the cashier's discretion, she clearly couldn't, but I got a
massive talking-to about who supposedly looks "over forty" --you know, as if I couldn't possibly know.
The following week, I had my high-school friend, yep, the bald one, go through the lane directly in front of mine, to see if the other cashier would sell him beer without checking ID. When she didn't check ID and rang him up anyway, I paged the manager and told her: that gentleman was a friend of mine, he was in my graduating class at the high school and only three months older than me. He was just sold beer illegally because "cashier discretion" was clearly insufficient.
Cashier: "What you talking about? He ain't your age!"
Me: "Ben, show them your ID."
Manager: "Oh, my god; B-----, you sold been to some-one just out of high school."
C: "He
ain't just outta high school!"
Ben: "I do have a photocopy of my diploma in my back pocket, just in case you want confirmation on that."
Me: [laughs] "Ben, you
didn't!"
B: "Hey, I was a Boy Scout until I was twelve. I figured this argument might happen, and I came prepared."
C: "How can you be bald just outta high school?"
B: "I got started in my sophomore year, that's how."
Manager: "Alright, B-----, void this
now before I count it as an illegal sale, and you better be more diligent about checking ID in the future."
Suffice to say, I never got a talking-to about my "overzealous" policy on ID again, and even though she didn't get written up, that cashier took it
way too personally --in her mind, clearly this had nothing
at all to do with my not-a-write-up from the week before (that everybody knew about), and was just some personal attack on her for no reason whatsoever-- and the other cashiers got a hard lesson in how to accurately eyeball whether or not a person might be old enough to buy alcohol or cigarettes legally.