GL Puck!

Sorry about the fire, sgath.

...... Today was the day my mother and I finally had our final words. I didn't intend for it to become what it did - in fact it started from bringing up a possible career path for myself - as a legal assistant/paralegal. I found a program in Victoria (where I went to university in) that seemed to be the most time-efficient method of achieving this. Doing things locally would take unnecessary time, because you need to complete a pre-requisite 30-week program beforehand. Eventually, money was brought up and eventually, we started to bicker. I tried to come across as a reasonable guy - but she kept throwing emotional cards at me. Had I not mentally trained myself and learned about narcissists, I may have fallen for her ploys. Not anymore. She even resorted to calling me a bully, something I am never. That is what insulted me the most - the fact that she labeled me arguably the ONE THING I absolutely hate. She called me something that I cannot ever fathom becoming - sure, I might be sometimes an ass, a douchebag, a dirtball - but a bully? Naahh. Not ever. I may be some of those other things, but not a bully. That word causes horrendous images to suddenly appear in my mind. Almost like PTSD, but not quite.

Unfortunately, I cannot now EVER go back to how things were before. I knew this was coming, I just didn't think it'd be today.

You'll get there Puck, just keep pounding at it.
So happy you didn't get cooked Sgath, wow what a story!
It would be so good for you to get out of there Orlok, you definitely have a strong spirit to have lived with a narcissist for any length of time!

So the situation with the ex got worse. He dislocated my wrist two days ago, and I'm slightly handicapped right now (can't really use my right arm that much, it's all bruised and it's hurting), and as I was sorting the books, he threw a fit and told me not to touch them.
I damaged a nerve, so I can't feel much in my hand other than some weird tingling, and I have trouble moving my shoulder. Guess how hard it is to actually pack stuff, even without someone yelling at me?
I'm just so damn tired right now. I'm so tired of the constant fights, because really, I haven't done anything to deserve that. I just want to get my things and go away, never to be heard from again. Bastard.

I say, leave and have a friend come back with you to help you move out.
Also, day of silence, today.

Alice, that's terrible, get out of there right now and if you go back to get your things, take at least one person with you. Best would be not having to go back but send someone. Tell the police, and don't drop the slightest hint on where you're going.
Take care of yourself ,you get me worried x

As long as you stay in the frame of mind that you don't deserve to be treated like that. All I can go from is this one post about how your relationship was, but it's obviously not right he does that. Nobody deserves that kind of shit, nobody. cutty is right too, you should take someone with you when you're packing or just send someone.

After all these years, it still enrages me when someone you're supposed to trust harms you.

Forgive me if I'm in the wrong place, I am new to this forum. Although not a 'hardcore' goth, i am having a gothic themed wedding in december!!! Does anyone know of any companies that does gothic dresses?? I have got my eye on 1 dress http://www.gothicbrides.co.uk/index.php ... cts_id=114 but the site is not complete and i want to be ordering sharpish! Help!!

The usual tricks my brain is playing in 'let's worry more about someone you've never, ever met, (and are never going to at this rate,) and who you barely even know, and not about eating or sleeping or staying sane.'
I'm also getting tired of being taken for a mug, I'm not stupid, and if people are going to do things that effect me then maybe they should worry about how fair it is on me beforehand, and not after they react like a kid caught with their hand in the cookie jar, because by then it's a bit late.
I'm pissed off, I haven't slept properly in days, I can't eat and I've spent the past 96 hours crying more than I have in the past four months. I've put up with this crap for far too long and now I'm at breaking point.

Oh Alice! *hugs* Please take a friend with you for the rest of your stuff. Or the police. Please stay safe!

Sapphire, I hope things get better for you!

Get out of that house ASAP. I've seen situations like the one you're going through escalate, and that is never good. Call the police if he freaks out again, and do not let him know where you're going. I agree with the others; take someone with you to help you move your things.

Puck: Oh, really? I usually do day of silence but I'm not this year. I'm home alone all day today so there's no one to talk to anyway...

Sapphire: I hope everything works out for you.

Sgath: I'm sorry to hear about the fire, but I am glad that you're okay.

I found thatmedieval stores do gothic weddings often. Check by there.

I just came from the hairdresser and my hair is lagoon blue!

*HUGS & HOPE* to all who need it.

Milky The Spider-Man 3 clip man me laugh!

cutty: oh la la! That's sounds lovely.

Alice, I think the others have the right idea about bringing someone with you, except I suggest bring the police, because if he hurt you like that, that's assault.

Cool!