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Carpathian Dark Princess
Cania
Joined: January 2009 Posts: 2451 Location: Metro Detroit Gender:
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 Smile or Scowl
I know that for us black-clad followers, we have a reputation of not liking happiness, even though that is far from true. Something else that comes along with that assumption is that the lot of us don't like to smile in photos, which - well, I dunno. I look at a lot of gothic photography and a big chunk of it has folks that put on their "grrrr" face (but it could also be how one applies their makeup - and their eyebrows for that matter) or are just really somber looking. However, I do see some smiles that peek through, though it's not surprising that these mostly come from the perkier goths. But what about you? Do you tend to scowl or smile in your photos? I, admittedly, am a smiler when it comes to photos. Call it vanity on my part, but most photos that I take where I am smiling look great on the first shot, but when I try to remain emotionless or have that "grrrr" face, I find myself taking several shots before I can find one or two that don't look so forced. I personally think that there are some people who do make good frowners in photos, but then there are some people who are just meant to griiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin! 
_________________ "Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." - Leo Tolstoy
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:48 am |
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Black Milk
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Joined: April 2002 Posts: 4130 Location: Ireland Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I generally smile a lot. Nearly every candid shot of me, has me smiling, but If I know a picture is being taken I generally try not to smile, because I just don't like the way I look in pictures when I smile. Though I do for family photos. I wouldn't say I scowl though, I aim for a neutral expression, I don't always quite hit the mark, but thats what I usually go for.
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 8:42 am |
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Midieval Fantasy
Manisha
Joined: October 2009 Posts: 8319 Location: Jacksonville Florida. Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I don't like to smile in photos ever. Especially after the incident with my daughter that caused me to lose one of my front teeth. If I do smile, it is seldom open mouthed, but a small raising of the lips. So yeah, I normally frown.
_________________ "May I have the Enlightenment of Buddha, the Peace of Gandhi, the Balance of Loazi, the Confidence of Hypatia, the Logic of Dawkins, and the Science of Sagan to guide me in all things." -Midi
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 10:29 am |
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Deafening Silence
Stygia
Joined: January 2011 Posts: 151 Location: Tamworth, England Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
My initial instinct is to go for a neutral expression or a slight frown. Although, if a smile is required I put on my 'photo smile'. My 'photo smile' is obviously different from my usual smile- my usual smile looks kinda like more of a grimace than a smile tbh. I am known to go for a more 'honestly-do-you-really-expect-me-to-smile' look with maybe an eyebrow raise, unless a 'photo smile' is required.
_________________ Death is life's way of telling you you're fired.
Assumption is the mother of all f*ck ups.
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:11 pm |
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orlok
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Joined: October 2010 Posts: 951 Location: Courtenay, British Columbia Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I smirk more often now . . . but I used to be *very* scowl-y. I gave the kid from the cover of Angela's Ashes a run for his money  Here's the scowling child, for those who've never seen the cover I'm talking about - http://connect.collectorz.com/movies/da ... ashes-1999
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 2:45 pm |
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HopelessRomantic
Malbolge
Joined: November 2011 Posts: 378 Location: Hiding behind livestock Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I'm not a smiler unless i'm at work, then i'm forced to be smiling and acting like a bimbo. I prefer a neutral expression. It keeps me out of trouble! lol But, really. I don't like to show off the gap in my front teeth. 
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 4:54 pm |
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Letalis Senium
Cocky Canard
Joined: January 2009 Posts: 5777 Location: Bed Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
Its more disconcerting to smile... just a little.
_________________ "Any human anywhere will blossom in a hundred unexpected talents and capacities simply by being given the opportunity to do so." - Doris Lessing
Jereth Magas, Gothsylvania Minister of Unnatural Resources.
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:02 pm |
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Wolfmammy
GAF
Joined: March 2009 Posts: 9286 Location: Alvin, TX Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I think my face looks terrible when I smile. My cheeks are huge and make me look like I have a huge balloon head.
And when someone sees a photo of me not smiling I get the typical "you're so pretty when you smile" crap. I smile in most of my photos, but I'm actually a scowler/glower-er. I do have a couple of pix that seem to say "When I catch you, I'm going to eat you so make the chase worth it!"
_________________ Merciful Shadows
I'm on the quest for immortality here people! Down with death!! ~ Carpi
In America, law violates you! ~ Arq
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:06 pm |
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Lachrymose
Cania
Joined: July 2009 Posts: 1089 Location: Zombietown, PA. Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
Midi...you're life sounds painful indeed. Hopeless..there are men who LOVE gap-toothed women. There was a TV show about them years ago, but I can't find it just know. WM...join Midi, would you? She'll move over. I clicked "smile"...because I'm laughing at how stupid people are. (That's nobody here, of course.  )
_________________ Ahhh...I get to stay inside.
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:43 pm |
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Arquinsiel
Nessus
Joined: January 2008 Posts: 3032 Location: Dublin Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I smile.
It's not a smile you normally want directed at you though.
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:08 pm |
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Nephele
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Joined: November 2008 Posts: 6746 Location: New York Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
All my smiles are sinister.
-- Nephele
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:08 pm |
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Wolfmammy
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Joined: March 2009 Posts: 9286 Location: Alvin, TX Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
Dammit! The smilers are winning!
>_<
_________________ Merciful Shadows
I'm on the quest for immortality here people! Down with death!! ~ Carpi
In America, law violates you! ~ Arq
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 7:15 pm |
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sleeplessimmortal
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Joined: September 2010 Posts: 335 Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
i'm usually smiling on the inside...  however that rarely translates into much other then a disapproving glare on the outside... I've gotten much better over the last few years, however my reputation as "the fun police" has been rather difficult to shake... i think it's rather unfair actually... cause i'm "always" having fun, some people just don't have the sense of humour required to observe it 
_________________ "Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality." - Edgar Poe http://exquisitehorrors.blogspot.com/
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| Sun Nov 27, 2011 7:56 pm |
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ittybittybat
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Joined: August 2010 Posts: 849 Location: Dracula's Castle (aka Charlottesville, VA) Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I be smilin' all the time.  No seriously, I do smile a lot. Actually, I laugh alot. I don't know why, but most things/weird noises make me laugh (and there are a lot) of weird noises!).
_________________ "Destiny is always something you must come up with on your own. No matter how much "advice" you receive, or who you receive it from, no one has any answers except yourself." --centurion
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| Mon Nov 28, 2011 9:37 am |
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Minty
Cania
Joined: April 2009 Posts: 1844 Location: Joie de l'Eau, Maice Isle, Gothsylvania, otherwise Blackheath, London, UK Gender:
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 Re: Smile or Scowl
I tend to smile... probably because I have so much I could scowl about  It seems to shock people when I smile, so I do it all the more, or more probably because I'm not one of life's gifted pouters (I look like I'm badly constipated!) and scowling just gives me a headache after about ten minutes... so smiling it is. Having said that, though, my expression is mostly neutral, except with people I know well and then I do this ----->  more often then not.
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